Hello, and welcome back to The Newcomers - where we explore what it means to be an immigrant.
P.S. I'd really like to grow this email list. If you enjoy this newsletter, it would mean the world to Jola and I if you encouraged one friend/fellow immigrant/colleague to subscribe…Very likely, the the only thing you will get in return is warm fuzzy feelings, and if I can attribute it to you, I’d personally send you a thank you email.
As an immigrant, it's easy to feel the need to show up and represent your home country's brand. To be great. To be of good behaviour. To show that your people are worth it.
Especially now. Especially with all that's going on in the world at this time. When immigrants have become the next best thing to blame for all that's wrong with society.
It can be tiring.
So, I think we should take Onyeka Okonkwo’s advice…learn to give ourselves some grace. Give yourself permission to fail. To try again. To make mistakes. To live. To love. To enjoy everyday.
Onyeka joined me on The Newcomers to chat about why she left Nigeria. We also talked about:
Working in Lagos vs. working in London
Finding her footing in her new home
Her approach to dealing with all the stuff immigrating to a new country throws at you
The burden of black tax
Learning to advocate for herself, and more.
Again, give yourself some grace, dear immigrant. You’ve got this.
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